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Kelsey's avatar

What a beautiful tribute and record of your love for Simba! I learned so much from my grief and loss of my heart dog, Yoshi. It's such a painful experience and people who haven't lost a pet cannot understand the depth of feeling. Only you and Jovanni know Simba and love him as your family. I'm so grateful for you sharing your experience and helping others feel less alone.

This is a reminder for me to allow strangers to be generous. I struggle with being open or accepting help. I'm sure there have been people who have extended an offer but I felt too much shame around needing support. I can bring more focus and intention on noticing the kindness of strangers.

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Henah Velez's avatar

Thank you so much, Kelsey. This means so much to me that you read it and took the time to comment (and share of your own experience with Yoshi, which I am so sorry to hear.) It is so true that people who don't have pets can't truly understand what it's like. ❤️‍🩹

And to quote my favorite cheesy movie, I think you'll find that love actually is all around 😉 if we allow it to be. xx

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Ororo Munroe's avatar

So sorry for your loss. :/ And I'm looking forward to your perspective on group travel as a solo traveler and why it's not for you. I can't do much traveling on my own right now due to being a co-caregiver, but I was eyeballing group travel agencies like LuxeTribes to travel with other people.

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Henah Velez's avatar

Thank you Ororo. ❤️‍🩹 I think it can be a great option if you're unable to travel solo or need some support—more to come!

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Jenna Nicole Stevens's avatar

Sending you much love Henah 🤍 Losing a beloved family member is never easy — take all the time you need. We lost our first dog almost two years ago and it still feels so strange. We had a huge party for her the day before she departed us, which including banners, paw print painting and a Big Mac. It was bittersweet but such a beautiful way to honour her xx

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Henah Velez's avatar

Jenna, thank you so much for this — I LOVE that idea of a party. I'd love to see a photo some day; that sounds so beautiful. :') xx

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Jenna Nicole Stevens's avatar

It was so precious and special! (I’ll drop you a message) 🤍 xx

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Lauren Smith's avatar

So much love to you in this time. We had a very close call with our dog this year, which brought to light both how short the years are AND how much kindness from people you've only barely or never met can mean. Hope there's space to hold yourself and your household gently in the coming days.

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Henah Velez's avatar

Thank you so much, Lauren — I'm so glad your dog is hanging in there. Yes, the generosity from our community has been so touching and a comfort in this time. Sending you love right back. xx

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Steph's avatar

Such a beautiful tribute — thank you for sharing with us. I am so sorry for your loss and I’m touched to hear about all the generosity and kindness extended to you!

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Henah Velez's avatar

Thank you so much for reading it, Steph, that mean so much to me. Sending hugs. xx

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Rain's avatar

Gorgeous tribute to your Simba, and much love to your family in this today. Thank you again for sharing this spicy boy and beauty with us strangers — a life well lived and loved indeed.

And thank you for inspiring the leap of trust I needed to reach out to people for support when my own cat got very sick last week and had to be put on a feeding tube. I thought of you and Simba a lot while we were in the ER. ♥️

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Henah Velez's avatar

Rain, thank you so very much — and I am so sorry to hear about your kitty. I hope they're hanging in there. Please don't hesitate to reach out if there's anything I can do. xx

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Rain's avatar

This is very kind: I will remember. She’s stable for now and that’s a lily pad I am grateful for. 🐈

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Henah Velez's avatar

Hope she's still doing well. <3

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Rain's avatar

Hey Henah; thank you for following up about my kitty. We will learn more on Thursday at her checkup.

Hope today has had some small ease for you and your heart.

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Henah Velez's avatar

My fingers are crossed for you!! xx

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Hannah Gerber's avatar

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

The generosity of strangers and acquaintances is why I still have hope in this world. As Henah knows, we recently set up a GoFundMe for IVF that isn’t covered by our insurance, and the amount of help we’ve received is truly staggering. The world can be a beautiful place.

Also, read the essay. You’ll need tissues but it’s the most beautiful tribute to sweet Simba.

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Henah Velez's avatar

Hannah, I am constantly reminded of how much I adore you. Thank you for reading and I'm so so happy to see your GFM doing so well. This will be your year, I'm sure of it. ❤️

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